Pregnancy can be an absolute roller coaster—equal parts bizarre, beautiful, and beyond exciting. Honestly, when I was pregnant, I got so wrapped up in prepping, planning, and frantically ticking off to-do lists before the baby arrived that I sometimes forget a rather important detail: taking care of myself.
As women, we’re often raised to put everyone else’s needs ahead of our own. But if there’s ever a moment to turn that thinking on its head, it’s pregnancy. Nurturing a growing baby is no small feat, and prioritizing self-care ensures you stay in prime condition for the job.
Keep scrolling to discover the essential self-care practices every mom-to-be needs.
10 Ways to Care for Yourself During Pregnancy
I’ll be honest: I didn’t check all of these self-care boxes during my first pregnancy. But with my two other pregnancies, I made a conscious effort to put my well-being first—and the difference was remarkable. I felt better, my body’s coped more smoothly, and I have no doubt these tips could help you too!
1. Get a Full Night’s Sleep
Looking back on my pregnancies, I can’t emphasize enough how critical a full night’s rest was for keeping things manageable—reducing morning sickness and even helping pave the way for a smoother (and sometimes shorter) labor. Trust me, reserving time to snuggle in bed is one appointment you should never feel guilty about keeping.
2. Take a Yoga Class
I can’t overstate how twice-weekly yoga classes turned my experience around. In my first pregnancy, I was in near-constant discomfort (verging on true pain). But once I discovered prenatal yoga for my later pregnancies, I was almost completely pain-free. It’s amazing what a bit of mindful stretching can do!
3. Schedule a Prenatal Massage
No matter what you do, the third trimester inevitably becomes a bit awkward—your body’s busy carrying a whole extra person, after all. That’s where a good prenatal massage came to my rescue. It relieved tension, eased the inevitable aches, and gave me a much-needed chance to relax.
4, Get a Pedicure
Let’s be honest: at some point, seeing your feet becomes a challenge—let alone painting your toenails. I learned that pedicures weren’t just a fun treat but a helpful way to prevent issues like ingrown toenails (the last thing you need while juggling pregnancy). Bonus: who doesn’t love pretty toes you can’t quite see?
5. Try a New Haircut
Once baby arrives, spontaneous salon visits might be off the table—especially if you end up recovering from something like a surprise C-section. You don’t have to go super short if you’re attached to your long locks—just opt for something that won’t stress you out when you have one hand free and two hours of sleep under your belt.
6. Treat Yourself to New Underwear
Let’s be honest: when’s the last time you actually splurged on some new undies? Yeah, same. But trust me, comfort is everything when you’re carrying around a growing baby bump. Enter maternity underwear. They’re cut to accommodate your belly without cutting into it, and you can find plenty that aren’t the dreaded “granny panties.” If you haven’t taken the plunge yet, run—don’t walk—and snag a few pairs. It’s a game-changer you’ll wish you’d tried sooner.
7. Take Photos to Commemorate the Journey
Whether you book a pro session or snap selfies in your living room, I promise you won’t regret having too many pictures of this once-in-a-lifetime experience. Just think of how precious those belly shots will be once you’re holding your little one in your arms. So go ahead and strike a pose—even if you’re feeling bigger than the sofa. You’ll thank yourself later.
8. Go on a “Babymoon”
If you can swing it, whisk yourself and your partner away—be it for a luxurious weekend beach escape or a simple staycation in your own town. The key is spending quality time together before baby makes you both unofficial zookeepers.
9. Plan a Girls Night Out
Friendships can take a backseat when you’re hyper-focused on nesting and family. That’s why scheduling a little time with your closest pals can be so refreshing. Head out for brunch, hit up a spa day, or simply grab dinner and laugh until you cry. Those moments of adult conversation and camaraderie remind you that there’s life beyond bottle sterilizers.
10. Be Kind to Yourself
Let’s face it: pregnancy does weird things to your body. You may feel like a waddling duck at times, and that’s okay. Cut yourself some slack—you’re growing another human! Self-care isn’t just about feeling pampered; it’s about nurturing your mind, body, and spirit during a stage of life that is beautiful, challenging, and fleeting. Surprisingly, you might even miss that bump when it’s gone. So go ahead and pamper yourself, revel in the small joys, and give yourself the compassion you’d offer a friend. You’ve got this, mama.
Conclusion
Whether it’s a fresh haircut, a comfortable new wardrobe of undies, or a weekend escape, these self-care tips aren’t luxuries—they’re must-haves that help you stay healthy, positive, and ready to meet your little one. Pregnancy may be temporary, but the benefits of making time for yourself will last long after your baby arrives. Embrace each moment, each odd craving, and each little flutter inside you—because you, mama, absolutely deserve it.
